This is a very wrong way of thinking my friend. It's like bully getting angry when the kid that is threatened all the time by that bully, decides to go their own way and have nothing to do with that bully. Then the bully says... I'm forced to beat you now because you don't do as I want and say. You are FORCING me to be a bully and beat the hell out of you. This is your logic.But that doesn't change anything that the ukrainian government decided themself to go in a route where they exectly new russia will be indirectly FORCED to start a war.
So who do i blame most ?Ukrainian leadership
Putin thinks Ukrainians are not real nation and they should all be under mother Russia. Who is he to decide that? Let me tell you something. I come from a former Yugoslavian republic. My country (Croatia) was attacked by Serbia (yugoslavia still back then) and they had 10/10 same BS reasons and rethoric and agenda as Putin has today.
They said for croats they are not real nation, they are just catholic serbs, that they go to war to 'protect' serbs, even similar stories about nazis. They even pronounced their pararepublic inside croatia where mostly serbs lived (all sound familiar?). You can conquer a land, but never the people, hence they lost the war. 3x bigger and stronger army have lost... after 5 bloody years and thousands killed.
You may love it or hate it, Ukrainian people will decide if they want to go to EU, not Putin. Ukrainian people will decide if they want to go to NATO, not Putin. Now they want this even more. Now even sweden and finland are thinking about this. This war will prolong, but nothing will be gained for Russia. There will only be thousands of dead russians and ukrainians. That's the only guarantee in this war.
I always blame the bully, weather that is Russia in this case, or west in some other cases. Anyways, isn't it great we all can state our own opinion here and not end up in a gulag in siberia for 15 years?
I saw that oposition leader in Russia was arrested today. Over the years many from oposition and journalists were arrested, killed, poisoned, disappeared in russia... We all know it's not a coincidence. Yup, sounds like a bully to me. If you are not as I tell you, you will FORCE me to kill/poison/xy you, so it's not my fault.