I know how frustrating this can be! I sometimes go back and reread my diary notes from the early 1980s about the Asset Protection courses and seminars I was taking. It was H3LL! I couldn't make heads or tails of what was being said/taught. Hiring professionals at those seminars proved even more disastrous as they would overcomplicate things, and money was down the drain. Many of my other impatient newbie seminar buddies lost so much money by engaging others "we" thought knew what they were doing. Still, to be honest with ourselves, we had NO knowledge of how to gauge the understanding of the "experts." We wanted things to be easy, and instantaneous was NOT fast enough for us then. We lacked industry knowledge.Right. And if you are a "professional" and things don't go as expected just use 'it is your fault' strategy. The bright example can be observed in a few posts above - there are no solutions 'because you are a newby to offshore'.
The ONLY thing that saved me was I was an engineering student learning Fortran & Pascal at that time, and my college professors used to say:
"Garbage in = Garbage out."
I knew that our input, what we told the "experts/service providers," was utterly wrong, but I had no idea what the correct input had to be, nor did I know how to correct our input.
Example: Even bright and accomplished people in "law" could NOT give me clear directions (input) on what they wanted in order to develop a legal computerized system for them then. It was people who were lawyers who also had programming talent/knowledge and the expertise who could program & establish such systems.
It takes time and a LOT of research to be able to recognize that needle in the haystack.
Be patient. It will all start to make sense. For example, when learning a new language, such as Mandarin, it would be unreasonable to expect to be fluent in Mandarin in the first year. It would even be more irrational to expect a Mandarin-speaking chef to understand our dish expectations...we instruct him "in common English."
PS. I've been here for a while. I was here with another account until some Gypsy ran off with my phone at Mr. Pizza in Firenze in 2019. I was 99% unfamiliar with these concepts when I started on OCT. Now, after a few years, I am down to 95%. That means I am unfamiliar with 95% of the new things as I read them here. So is the nature of a fast-moving world where lobbyists, politicians, and public servants keep moving the goalpost in order to rob us more easily.