Guys, as much as I hate to say this, few things need to be said, so other would avoid their mistakes in future (and it's not exactly about
Monese).
While it's easy to understand why the OP is emotional about the loss, it's hard to understand why he put all the money into just one basket, what's more, it looks like it's been done without prior testing and without any research.
I would argue that in no circumstances any 'to be or not to be' money should be sent to EMIs.
Lack of experience costs more than working with someone who could share his (for money). What works too is
investing some time in research about the potential parties involved in the future dealings. I mean those 12000 good and 4000 bad reviews didn't appear last month or did they? Not like trustpilot isn't high in serps, right? So again, depending on the volume of money, it would really make sense to analyse the risks.
There are also other learnings there.
If something (say
Monese) is known to work well say with UK resident accounts, UK companies, why not to feed Monese with the data they really like?
It costs some money (everything does), but it also makes everyone happy and keeps them focused on all those non UK accounts with one off big international payments...
There may be a time pressure involved, but again if there are reasons for not using a standard bank and that for whatever reason an
EMI needs to be employed, then why only to research the banks and not the EMIs and then be left at their grace as EMIs like banks will hold the crucial money?