monero wallet

Guys, I was holding large amounts of crypto on exchanges. I've been mostly into Monero because of the anonymity aspects. Now I realize it's a terrible idea to keep large sums in exchanges so I went looking for alternatives. I wanted to do this right, in a way it is impossible to get hacked...

Can you let me know what the best Monero Wallet is to keep my monero coins but also to receive and send Monero? I have heard it is the most secure and used by deepweb now, so there must be an easy way to make use of this coind or token?